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It was probably more because some of the usual excuses for bullying just weren't applicable. Come from a broken home? So did 80% of us. Didn't have the latest trainers? Neither did 80% of us. Bit of a brain box? Yea, well I got that crap at primary school and my dad taught me exactly what to do. If they weren't embarrassed enough to stop after a verbal put down, the physical one did the trick.
I still believe that the majority of bullying is down to the parents, their upbringing and beliefs shaping their kids' behaviour. I remember my first anti bullying stance at the grand old age of 6. A new kid at school, half Japanese, and a group of kids following him round the playground with taunts of refugee. Now, I had no idea of the meaning of the word, just knew it was cruel behaviour. All it took was me and a friend to take his side, and the group backed off. Don't get me wrong, my dad was pretty much a racist, but always taught me to treat everyone with respect until they proved undeserving (albeit adding 'even the n*g n*gs'), and he was probably who shaped by behaviour the most from a young age (apart from the racism!)
Not sure who made me a political activist at 9 though, although it was fun being front page of the local newspaper (slow news week) after getting Michael Shersby down to my school! |
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