good xbox live gold is cheaper than plus
good EA access
good Gamepass
good xbox 360 backwards compatibility
good 4k blu ray drive
bad missing out on ps4 exclusives that are out and will be coming out that you wont get to play
bad missing out on PSVR
bad you have to buy a play and charge kit for the xbox controller
The One S is virtually pointless graphics wise as the PS4 plays pretty much everything better (except for 4K Media content obviously).
It should really come down to 2 things really, do you have friends on a particular platform that you want to play online with and which platform has more of the types of games you want to play (cross-plats aside).
Unless you’re prepared to plump for a One X I would say stick with the PS4 but even then I would keep the PS4 for the exclusives.
Almost nothing to be honest it comes down to personal preference. The only 2 reasons I would swap my PS4 for an XBOX One S (I own both Pro and X) is to play my UHD disc movies and to play the exclusive games which have been meh anyway.
Both consoles have a pay to play service but XBOX also has EA Access. The games on all three services aren't anything special in my opinion. Just join a game rental site and get access to everything across all formats.
I would personally keep the PS4 and buy a cheap XBOX One for around £100 second hand. Unless you want the UHD.
you can get HDR even on a normal ps4, controller is personal taste i prefer dual shock as i dont have to buy a play and charge kit also has speaker and dedicated share button, xbox live seems to be as unreliable nowdays and their sale prices arnt as good