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There is a significant aspect of these issues goes under the radar and it's absent in the discussion, apportion of directing blame/anger and the perceptions and perspectives we have.
It is generally always framed, discussed and campaigned on from the perspective of it being about men controlling and surpressing (or attempting to) the rights and lives of women.
That significant missing aspect turns up time and time again when any studies are done into the real world experiences of women and children subjected to oppression and harm across the spectrum of severity from the extremes of things like FGM to the farm more mild but still significant social prejudicies against the desires and aspirations of a person that does not fit a perception of being appropriate or possible based on gender.
What is the significant missing aspect ?
That a significant number of women believe in, support, take part in and even instigate and oversee that oppression in it's many forms.
One could argue that women only take part out of fear, but that is not born out by overall picture and patterns of abuse time and time again. There is no doubt that many women, just like men do act out of fear of reprisals. But this does not and can not account for the sheer numbers, level of commitment and effort women often go to in oppressing other women.
Particularly in the west we have recognised that their have been and still are biases based on gender in our societies and have taken action in an attempt to redress the balance.
However, although we have recognised our biases in how we treat people of one gender with regards to rights, protection and prospects, we have still fallen short and allowed those biases to persist within our observations, analysis of the problems and the solutions we propose.
A prime example of this would be in supporting the position that women are just as able to think, reason and make decisions responsibly to live their lives how they want as a man can - then essentially infantalising them with regards to their responsibility when they make careless decisions.
Until we stop thinking of women as purely the victims and men as the sole perpetrators of the oppression of women or anyone else, we are doomed to both fail and further propagate ill informed biases and prejudices. |
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